Self-care vs. Self-sabotage

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Self-care. It’s the buzzword that’s taken over our bookshelves and bathroom cabinets, urging us to prioritize our well-being. From self-help bibles to aromatic candles, and even those catchy slogan tees reminding us to ‘Be Kind,’ it’s a revolution tailor-made for the ladies. But here’s the kicker – despite our best intentions, we women often find ourselves at the bottom of our own to-do list.

Nurturing comes naturally to us; we excel at tending to our loved ones, be it our kids, partners, or parents. Yet, when it comes to extending that same TLC to ourselves, we falter. “I just don’t have time,” we protest, as we juggle meetings, munchkins, and myriad tasks. But here’s the truth: trying to be Superwoman only leads to burnout, leaving everything – from our well-being to our work – in shambles.

Blame it on the multitasking madness. We wear our ability to juggle a dozen tasks like a badge of honor, but science begs to differ. Turns out, our brains are wired to focus on one thing at a time. So, while we’re busy spreading ourselves thin across various fronts, we’re actually getting less done. Researchers even found that heavy multitaskers have brains with less empathy and emotional control – yikes!

It’s time to get real about self-care, folks. Confession time: I wasn’t always great at it. Twenty years sans a laptop-free vacation? Guilty as charged. But I’ve learned the hard way, and now, self-care is non-negotiable.

For me, it all begins with sleep – the ultimate game-changer. Trust me, nobody thrives on a few measly hours of shut-eye. And did you know, skimping on sleep increases your risk of heart attacks and strokes? (Fun fact: more women kick the bucket from heart disease than breast cancer.)

Then there’s my daily dose of escapism – courtesy of novels, not news. Sure, I might miss out on some riveting headlines, but diving into fiction keeps me sane amidst the chaos. It’s all about finding what floats your boat.

But here’s the kicker: being true to yourself is the ultimate act of self-care. We’re so caught up in the hustle, we forget to check in with ourselves. It’s okay to feel anxious or blue; what matters is giving yourself the space to acknowledge those feelings. It’s about being mindful, spiritual even, and carving out time for introspection.

So, here’s the million-dollar question: what if you carved out an hour from your workday for self-care? The payoff? Mental clarity, a confidence boost, and the energy to conquer the world. Trust me, investing in yourself is the best decision you’ll ever make.

Kate Percival, the powerhouse behind Grace Belgravia, embarked on a mission over five years ago to create a haven for women prioritizing their well-being. Grace isn’t just a club; it’s a sanctuary where health meets luxury, and community thrives. Curious? Dive deeper at www.gracebelgravia.com.

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